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What Twenty Years of Caring for My Mother Taught Me

Two decades of caregiving, and the lessons that only time and loss can teach.

Henry Tanaka · 11 min · July 31, 2026

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Henry Tanaka

Conversation host — caregiving, illness, and loss

I spent years as a caregiver before I ever held a microphone. Now I host conversations that give people permission to say the harder part out loud.

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